4 TIPS TO HELP YOU CHOOSE A LIFE YOU LOVE

Hello Dear Friends,

One of the most important truths I’ve come to know is that indecisiveness will get you absolutelyyyy NOWHERE when it comes to creating the life you deserve and desire. More often than not, I sit around weighing options trying to decide which choice minimizes damages and increases benefits. Meanwhile, while I’m busy doing all of that wasting-time-hubba-jubba, my life passes by and opportunities fly out the door. All because I couldn’t make up my dang mind.

Anyone else? Yeah, I thought so.

I think the turning point for me was understanding that I couldn’t keep pushing my life into tomorrow. Not only understanding that truth, but also full-heartedly believing it to be true.

The only time we have is now. Yesterday is gone and tomorrow isn’t promised, (v cliché but also v true) why wouldn’t I decide to go after what my heart truly desires?

HOWEVER, changing our lives, leaning into growth, and learning to be decisive is much easier said than done.

Here are 4 T I P S to help you bring the life you want into existence: 

1.     Be who YOU want to be (+ do what you want to do)

2.     Do the things that you L O V E, not just tolerate, and don’t worry what other people might think or say.

3.     Gather around people who uplift and support your vision. It really does take a tribe. A whole entire tribe. Doing things independently is cool and all, but having a solid support system makes a world of difference.

4.     Respect the pace in which you are growing (!!!) Everything happens in perfect time, trust the timing of your life.

 Trust that you have ALL the tools you need right now to make positive choices for your life and try not to think too much into it. The biggest trick for me is listening to my intuition and always following choices that are close to my heart. More often than not, you’ll discover that your purpose comes in those moments where you act spontaneously and flow in the moment.

 Are you going to make the right choices ALL the time?? ABSOLUTELY NOT. Life wouldn’t be life if everything ran perfectly and smoothly. But a huge part of the process is accepting that you’re going to make mistakes and when you do, continuing to hold space for yourself and continuing to show yourself compassion.

 Take a deep breath (woo-sa…) and know that it is safe to trust where you are and where you’re headed.

All my love, Kenna.